A Dad First

Look up Genesis 3:17…I used NIV below to help:
To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you..”

Note the two things joined by the *and*: 1) you listened to your wife, and 2) ate the fruit.

Then explain to wife that Adam got in trouble first for listening to his wife.

Then enjoy the couch.